Sunday, December 31, 2006

slum book =)






i received this slumbook type chain email once more. so instead of replying to it and forwarding it to other people, i'll just post it as a blog & u guys just read through it if ever somebody's interested

1) Starting time: 4:47 am

2) Your Name: pearl ailene balagtas alemanza

3) What are your nicknames: pearl, perlypie, perlalush, veklah, msjoshuaholic

4) School: university of the philippines - los baƱos, colegio de san juan de letran - calamba & holy angels preschool (not sure of the complete name)

5) E-mail: pearl0117@yahoo.com (i have others but 4 security reasons, id rather not post them)

6) Eyes: dark brown

7) Hair: black

8) Pets: - none -

9) Siblings: sisters: lianne & zarah; bros: paul & kyle

~~**HAVE YOU EVER**~

10) Been so drunk you blacked out: oyeah! tagaytay 2002 with childhood friends

11) Taken any illegal substances: -nope-

12) Gone out in public in your pajamas: yes, to my tita's house just a couple of blocks away; halloween costume for 2006

13) Missed school b/c it was raining: seldom

14) Set any body part on fire for amusement: hell no!

15) Ever kept a secret from someone: yes

16) Who knows your deepest secrets: ebek, ruby, enet, zar & lianne

17) Wanted to hook up with a friend: ???

18) Cried during a movie: always, even commercials

19) Had a crush on a teacher: oyah! my physics instructor wahehehe (hope he's not into reading blogs)

20) Ever thought an animated character was hot: aki of final fantasy, dennis of ghost fighter

21) Ever at anytime owned New Kids on the Block stuff: yes & proud of it!

22) Planned your week based on the TV Guide: yes! sunday is always kapuso all the way day

23) Prank called someone: yes

~~**FAVORITES**~~

25) Shampoo: virgin coco of hortaleza, sunsilk

26) Soap: ivory, tender care pink & johnsons pure essentials pink, body shop strawberry soap, vanilla soap & tea tree soap

27) Color: pink, purple, red

28) Day/Night: Day

29) Summer/Rainy: Rainy Season

30) Online smile: =) or =>

31) Lace or satin: neither, i like cotton

32) Cartoons/Anime: final fantasy, ghost fighter, south park, care bears

33) Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend: No

34) Like anyone: Yes, alot!

35) Who have you known the longest of your friends: teng, norman - since kindergarden

36) Who is the shyest: teng seldom talks even if you probe

37) Who do you go to for advice: mom, sibs, very close friends

38) Who do you get the most surveys from: sisters

39) Who do you cry with: family & friends (i'm such a cry baby )

~~**IN THE LAST 2 WEEKS HAVE YOU**~~

40) Cried: yes (while watching the yuletide short films of GMA)

41) Cut your hair: no

42) Exercised: rarely

43) Worn a skirt: no way

44) Been mean: yes, just to fight back.

45) Been sarcastic: yes

46) Met someone new: yes

47) Talked to someone you have a crush on: not yet, but i will in a weeks time

48) Missed someone: yes, very much

49) Hugged someone: yeah

50) Fought with your parents: nope

51) Wished upon a star: every night

52) Laughed until you cried: yes

53) Played Truth or Dare: nope

54) Watched a sunrise/sunset: yes (i do this everyday on way to & from work)

55) Went to the beach at night: nope

56) Spent quality time alone: yes

57) Read a book for fun: nope

58) Ate a great meal: yes!

59) Are you lonely: sometimes, it varies

60) Are you happy: not happy enough

61) Are you talking to someone online: yes

~~**DO YOU BELIEVE IN~~**

62) God/Devil: yes

64) The Closet Monster: no

65) The Big Bang Theory: yes

66) Heaven/Underworld: yes

67) Superstitions: depends

68) What's a name you'd rather be called: pretty, gwen, arwen, prudence

69) Who named you: my mom and a neighbor

70) Backstreet Boys or NSync: N*sync forever

71) When was the last time you showered: This morning

72) What color pants do you have on right now: red jogging pants

73) What song are you listening to right now: fergilicious

74) What was the last thing you said: sweet dreams

75) What is right next to you: a fax machine

76) What is your computer desk made of: synthetic wood

77) What is your phone number (optional): for security reasons, i'd rather not post it

78) What was the last thing you ate: calamares that i cooked

79) Where do you want to go on your honeymoon: Europe

80) Who do you want to spend the rest of your life with: i have someone in mind, still hoping he feels the same way. we'll know on my 32 birthday

81) How many buddies do you have on your PM list: a lot!

82) How's the weather right now: chilly christmas time

83) Have you ever smoked pot: haven't even seen a real one

84) What did you do last night: downloaded songs, chatted with the joshuaholics, ate a lot, watched tv

85)
What is the best thing you find about the opposite sex:
most of the best bosses that i've had were men. whenever they choose to, they could be sensitive, kind, affectionate, sweet & understanding.

86) How are you today: okay

87) How do you eat an Oreo: split it in 2, lick the filling first, then eat the cookie

88) Who makes you happy: My friends, family & joshua hehehe

89) Fav cds: freestyle live at 19east, south border's episode II platinum ed., n*sync's no strings attached & live at madison square garden, soso def all stars III, jayR's gameface & kyla's not your ordinary girl,

90) Fav dream: i was floating on a piece of wood gazing at the stars

91) Have you ever won any special awards: yes: dancing queen hehehe

92) What do you want to be when you grow up: a professional dancer, but it's too late for that now

93) End time: 5:15 am






Sunday, December 03, 2006

happy feet...basketball...random chats


today was another fun day for me. spent the whole day with kyle &
lianne at the festival mall, alabang. after shift i slept until 10am
and met them at the mall. the original plan was just to watch the movie
"happy feet" but then we missed the first screening because we still
had to eat lunch. we went to tom's world first to pass the time. then i
saw my favorite game, basketball. so i bought 4 tokens, two each for
kyle & me. but then we realized that we had to get something out of
the tickets that we got from winning. so we ended up buying a bunch of
tokens & i ended up getting all sweaty from shooting hoops hahaha.
i think i enjoyed my stay there better than kyle who was so nervous of
not getting anything from any game. he was finally coaxed by lianne to
try a sort of a ufo catcher that does not get toys but tickets hahaha
he was a sucker for tickets that he ended up using up most of his
tokens there. after watching the movies we went back to get more tokens
to win more tickets for kyle. we discovered that there were some games
that give you more tickets than the others & they were the easier
& less complex ones ...daya... but we discovered it much much later
when we only had a few tokens left.but at the end of it all we just
decided to keep the credits that we have and just go back some other
time to add more points to it so that kyle could get the white car that
he wants worth 3K points. so far we already have 330, gudluck na lang
di ba!?


it
was a nice day as well because lianne & i had a good chat with our
old schoolmates from Letran, one of which was the sister of a good
friend, who by the way celebrated his birthday yesterday, when i
thought it was today. sent him a txt msg to greet him a belated happy
birthday, but he did not respond, hmmmm perhaps he's just busy. it was nice to chat with them like that because we were never that close in high school, but since we've been schoolmates since grade school until college, we do have a special bond that gives us that comfy feeling to talk about stuff with each other.


i had
fun watching "happy feet" as well. i only saw the movie as a bonding thing
with kyle, but i think i ended up liking it more than he did (again, it's all about me). i really
liked the songs that were played, especially the upbeat & danceable
ones. i also appreciated the moral behind the story, which is something
that i should keep in mind. perseverance would always lead to success!
there may be a lot of hardships along the way, but as long as you
focus on your goals you'll end up getting what you want in the end. no
matter how long or hard it takes, just have faith. that's what my TL
recently told me when i lost my senses again just recently, her words
made sense then but seeing this movie made me realize it more. it's
so ironic that i had to learn it from a kiddie flick
so perhaps it's true that everything that you need to succeed was taught in kindergarden huh?

i
guess i found the answers to my woes today, the best things in life are
free! all you have to do is to find the heart to appreciate them. they are all yours as long as you acknowledge that these are things
that can make you happy...









Monday, November 27, 2006

outburst






you know the feeling when your head wants to burst because of too much worries and you don't even know where to start to fix it? you close your eyes & try to concentrate or hope by some miracle they will all go away? then you'll be happy & content again. you think of a "happy thought" and for a while there it makes you a bit happy, a temporary fix yeah...but then you'll realize, "who am i kidding! these worries won't go away, they can just get worse..." i often feel that, right now that's what i am experiencing. some people would tell me that my problems are not even half as huge as those people of who don't have anything to eat, or can't walk or talk. but then that's their case, not mine. so bug off! if you can't help, just keep your mouths shut!

i usually deal with my woes on my own. the minor ones that are worth sharing, i usually tell my sibs, but the major ones are those that haunt me, mistakes that you've done in the past thats still in your head & you can't find any solid proof that would go away. these are the things that keep me silent, that makes me want to cry in the middle of the night or whenever i am alone. this is the side of me that none of you know because you know me as ms. cheerful. that's why often times i just burst into tears whenever i am taking a difficult call, it's not the calls, it's not the irate stupid customer, it's me. i have a problem that i can't deal with & am not willing to share with anyone of you. so whenever you see me like that, just bug off! nothing that you can say or do can help, not unless you can lend me a half million pesos wahahaha, fat chance!

i have a lot of things on my mind right now, and the things that i wrote may have not made any sense to any of you. but that's what i want to write right now, just to clear my head. well, it worked somehow...wonder how long this will last?





Monday, October 09, 2006

Maegan Johanna Biglete's first movie ;-)




meet Maegan Johanna Biglete, the first daughter of Mary Rose Reyes & Jojo Biglete

Tuesday, September 26, 2006

happy memories...


"everything you've done will become someone else's memory. the person might forget the exact words you said but there's no way to make them forget the way you made them feel."

this was one of the thousands of quotes that i receive on a daily basis. it's quite simple but the reality that it implied really tapped a senti part of me. just a few hours after i forwarded this quote to my friends <---thank God for globe's unlimitxt! ---> a very pleasant surprise came my way. i received a new friend invite thru friendster. it was from a friend that i have not seen for ages. i think the last time that i saw her was when i was still in 2nd year high school.

i don't know why but i was so delighted when i saw who it was. i don't even know how close we were then, all i can remember was that she was a transferee from another school when we were in grade 5, we became classmates when we were in grade 6 and we were groupmates in one or two of our activities in school. i can remember that my sister (who shares the same 1st name as her) and i went to their place in real, calamba a couple of times. i know that i enjoyed her mother's cooking and the stroll that we have by the river near their place. then she moved to lucena when we were in highschool and just came to visit a couple of times. apart from that my memory was just filled with happy feelings and nothing else.

today i discovered that one of my new officemates was a schoolmate of mine as well. she was younger by 2 years and i used to handle her for my troop for GSP. when i asked her for a name of her batchmate from Letran who was a girl scout, she just blurted out that she knew "Pearl Alemanza" it was funny that she knew my name but never recognized my face =) and she was so surprised when i told her " ako nga yun e " after shift we rode the same bus and we chatted all though out the trip, she told me that the reason why she could remember me was because i was nice to her then and that i was always the friendly type. so i remembered the quote again. now i know why it pays to be nice to other people. hmmm which also made me think about the people that i treated badly before, i bet they can still remember how bad i made them feel then

now i vow to try my very best to treat every person with respect <--- unless i'm provoked of course ---> so that i could leave more pleasant memories to people and when i die, they would remember me as a person who gave then good memories






Sunday, September 24, 2006

frustrated korean



this was the name of my very 1st blog, since my friend rosemar introduced me to watching asianovelas, i have been fascinated with koreans. and now this is a passion that i also share with my mom. now i'm so glad that at least the virtual me can be a korean

see Lady Gwen in a Korean Traditional Garment for Royalty. I don't have anything else to say, i just want to brag about my new Oz World look wahihihi




Wednesday, September 13, 2006

the resurrection of Lady Gwen


people who knew me from way back would know that i was once addicted to an RPG that became a substitute to my addiction to mIRC... OZ World!!! it started with mark's discovery of the beta test for the game, they tested it out and eventually encouraged most of the family to try it. since we had a computer shop then, we had access to broadband connection 24/7. so it made it easier for us to play the game. its a really fun game wherein the player is represented by an avatar that you can customize. You can choose your own hairstyle, skin color, clothes that can make you dance and shoes that can make you run. your avatar can even laugh, cry, jump and even take a bow. it's just amazing! apart from chatting you also have the option to buy a house that you will decorate on your own, you choose your own color scheme and even the furniture that you're going to buy. now where do we get the money to buy things? thru fishing! fishing is the main source of income in Oz world wherein the fish that you catch can be sold to get gold (G) which is the currency in Oz world.

But then i moved to the call center industry, which required longer sleep time than usual. so just like the rest of my life, my online life took a back seat. i forgot everything about oz world....until my sisters advised me recently that you can play it for free again. and since we now have broadband connection at home, we can play the game with ease now. so now, i'm back!

but now my avatar looks pathetic because it's so plain. well i just have to fish a lot to get more Gs so that i can buy my old hairstyle and outfit, especially those cute running shoes....

Sunday, September 10, 2006

Oh Happy Days




whenever my sisters and i are together, you can never expect a decent conversation. yesterday we went to watch eternity at the festival mall and had lunch afterwards. as usual, lianne was in her playful mode making up funny and absurd stories and coming up with wacky ideas that never fails to make zarah & i laugh. even the food that we were eating was not spared, nor the people that were around us. as usual, i was the "dakilang taga-tawa" which is normal for any family gathering.


this is the kind of life that i've been used to, having my family around has made me the person that i am today. thus, i am very happy with the decision that i made in moving to my new company. since i have relocated to alabang, i now have more quality time with my family. i can easily catch up with what's going on with my family on a daily basis, be it a problem that needs my attention or a happy event that requires all of us to be together.

whenever i say family, i do not just pertain to my nuclear family (mom, dad, nanay, bros & sisses) but the whole clan. my cousins and i were brought up by our parents like real brothers & sisters. we share all our triumphs and defeats together, we cry & laugh together through thick & thin. this is what makes me grounded, knowing that they need me & that i need them in every aspect of my life. it makes me proud to see how my little cousins grew up under their older cousin's guidance and how they make us feel young by keeping us updated about the ins & outs.

now we have sam from hannah & mark, who despite the trials that he went through during the first year of his life, never fails to bring us joy whenever we hear a positive development in his condition. then there's sean & rhian from nan & raissa whom we seldom see but still brings us happiness whenever we see them.

i could just go on & on and rave about my family, but i have to stop. of course i have 30 yrs of my life with them and i bet the disk space alloted by multiply for me would not be enough =) i'm just writing this down to tell my family that i have never thanked you enough for the happy memories that you've given me that's more than enough to last me a lifetime to be happy... so nostalgic noh... but seriously although we've been through rough times i really appreciate having this kind of family around me, you keep me sane in this chaotic world, you make me realize how beautiful my life is with your own woes and you make me happy during the saddest and darkest days of my life. thank you & i love you all... parang artista ano?










Thursday, September 07, 2006

health vs wealth


i was absent from work last night due to severe stomach pains that i have been feeling for the past 2 days but just tried to ignore. i am a person who has a very high tolerance for pain, which really scares me because im not sure if i am already putting my life on the line because of it. my sister once told that one of her acquaintances is suffering
from colon cancer at the age of 34, that really scared the hell out of
me because we are almost of the same age and i often get tummy aches like this but always try to shrug it off as a mere tummy ache that could be solved by taking meds.


last night i wanted to go to the hospital for a check up but then i thought that i might get confined, just like what happened the last time i went there with a tummy ache i got confined for 3 days because of gastroenteritis. this i cannot risk now because i have just recently moved to my new job and have yet to enjoy the privilege of having leave credits. at the moment with 1 absence and 2 tardies i am on the brink of getting a CA (corrective action), which would really upset me because i never got 1 for my previous jobs and add to the the fact that i won't get paid. today i am still not feeling well and is still struggling to decide whether to go to the hospital or not. now this makes me wonder, is it all worth it? is is really worth it to sacrifice one's health over work?

i have always been vocal about how i despised the way the world is today. one has to work to earn money so that he could buy himself things. oftentimes these are things that are not even that important for your daily survival because what the human body just needs to survive is food, shelter and clothing and that's it. gone were the days that people led simple lives, planting rice and growing their own crops and raising livestock for their family's consumption. now everybody has to work so that they could cover for the family's expenses. we work 5 days a week, have fun during payday, rest for 2 days and then work again. it's just a vicious cycle. no wonder companies invest a lot on medical benefits of their employees because they know that they need it. my previous company's health card even covers P500,000/illness/year beat that!

come to think of it, if your life is as simple as just spending time relaxing in the province, away from the materialistic cosmopolitan world, you won't need any of that. just a sturdy roof over your head, decent clothing and good meals served by your mom is enough to make you enjoy the rest of your life. this is what my mom and i are planning to do once she retires, but to be honest i'm thinking of doing it at the soonest possible time. not because i'm being lazy but because i think i have already reached the realization that the most important thing in my life now is just being with my family and taking care of myself. but then again, can i afford it? and that brings me back to the same question, health vs wealth???






Monday, September 04, 2006

Welcome to Dongmakgol

Rating:★★★★★
Category:Movies
Genre: Other
The story was set on September 1950 in the thick of the Korean War when the Allied Forces led by WWII hero MacArthur succeeded in the Incheon landing. While most of the Communist People's Army soldiers were isolated by this operation died or hid in the mountains, Allied Forces often carried out indiscriminate bombings to clear out People's Army everywhere wherein some of these places were civilian areas too.


It all began when one of the planes of an American soldier crashes near a small civilian village hidden in the high mountains. He was later joined by 3 Communist People's Army soldiers and 2 South Korean soldiers who got lost and were led there by native villagers who were just willing to help. The village was called Dongmakgol.

Being isolated from the rest of Korea, Dongmakgol was a place where its residents lived simple lives as farmers. They say that the village was named as such so that they could live as carefree as children.

Upon seeing each other, the 2 parties aimed guns & grenades and made threats and curses to warn the other party. Unfamiliar to these weapons, thinking that the guns were mere sticks and the grenades were potatoes, the village folk went on with their own concerns until the soldiers accidentally blew off the storage hut for their food. Guilty that the villagers would have nothing to eat for the whole year because of them, the soldiers stayed and worked in the village until the new storage hut was filled with food. In the process they have adapted to villagers’ native culture and soon became close friends. Everything was already doing well and they have already considered to stay in the village forever when the Allied Forces attacked the village to look for the American soldier. Suspecting the village for a communist camp, a bombing was already planned to wipe out the village and its residents. To prevent the village from being harmed, the soldiers set up a decoy in a nearby mountain to be the target. Sending the American back to his base in the hope of stopping the bombing to be initiated, the 5 Korean soldiers fought to the end and sacrificed their own lives just to save the village.

Although the movie had a bittersweet ending, I would still consider it as a feel good movie. It’s a good balance of action, light drama & comedy that makes it a good movie to watch either before you go to sleep or after waking up in the morning leaving you in a teary-eyed bliss. =)

curiosity...discovery...change of heart


out of curiosity, because people were making such a big fuss about it, i searched for kc concepcion's blog. after reading it, i still couldn't see what the big deal was. just like any other blog that i've seen, she was sharing her thoughts & experiences and was just documenting it for other people to see. but then again i realized, it's kc concepcion meeting gabby, of course who wouldn't be interested


i am actually not posting this to rave about kc and her blog, its just that i found out that she was using multiply for her blog. a good friend of mine has long been convincing me to use multiply since i already have an account here. but then im really lazy in updating blogs, as you can see from the huge gap in dates of my previous posts from one another. i was already maintaining 2, one with friendster and blogger, not to mention my yahoo 360 homepage. each of them had a specific feature that i liked, that's why kept all 3, but now i think i'm not going to update them anymore.


i have just started updating it and so far i am enjoying the experience. multiply lets me upload songs and compile it as a play list that is being played while my visitor is viewing my home page, it also lets me upload videos that can be viewed by the public as well. i find the layout very user friendly and the site navigation is quite easy for both the owner and visitor. its a real treat for dummies like =) i really liked the preset themes that they have and the simplicity of the tools that i used to update the site. since this site is by far the best that i've seen, i'll just stick with multiply.


to view my previous sites, please click on the following links:
http://pearlailene.blogspot.com/
http://pearlailene.blogs.friendster.com/pearlalush/
http://360.yahoo.com/pearl0117




final post...moving to a new site

please be advised that further posts will now be made through my multiply site http://pearlailene.multiply.com thanks =)

Core Photo Montage




Friday, June 23, 2006

it's been a while...

guess it's been a while since the last time that i posted something on my blog. i've been busy with a lot of changes in my life that i never had the time to really sit & post anything or maybe its also because we lost our internet connection at home thanks to the ever reliable (?!?) phone service that we have for our barrio >;)

things that happened? well i left my previous contact center job in makati in favor of staying home in laguna forever. i've been away from my family for 6 years, going home only during my rest days when i was still working in paraƱaque & makati. although i have another place there with my lovable housemates (shucks, i miss you gals so much!), nothing beats going home to your own bed after a day's or in my case a whole night's work with your cute little brother sleeping beside you.

i am now happily working for a contact center in alabang at the northgate cyberzone area. it's a lot like my old company in ambience & work ethic, only much better when it comes to facilities & perks. i am enjoying myself very much while still on training, primarily because of the people that i work with. there's my beloved tranche 9: brokeback action team and the trainors and new friends that i've met so far. i really love how this new company celebrates special occassions & holidays. during the independence day celebration, we got free lumpia & sago't gulaman and those who wore traditional filipino costumes got prizes. my tranchemate capitan tiyago (carl) hehehe won an executive hilot package from the spa. grabeh noh! last night was my first ever experience of the town hall meeting (that's our company's version of the GA, only grander [if even there is such a word]). we were asked to wear school uniforms in accordance to the back-to-school theme. it was a surprise for me that a lot did participate & did not change back into work clothes even afer the town hall was through. i guess each one of us enjoying feeling like a kid once more. i got a big dose of it when they were all teasing me that the building for grade 3 was on the other block hehehehe

well i think i wrote a lot already. time to sleep. to tranchemates, tonight is the last night of our classroom bonding. welcome to the vodafone answer call... este real world of taking calls the whole shift pala hahahaha. to my lovely former housemates, miss u all so much can't wait to visit you guys for a sleepover for more bonding. to my friends in PS will see you guys soon. spi pals still love y'all. drama na toh!

sleeping time... sleeping time... i don't even know if my blabber made any sense. but who cares, it's my blog anyway =) just forgive me if i made any mistakes, im actually typing this while my eyes are half closed =)

Tuesday, February 14, 2006

your song ....

it may not necessarily be your favorite, but sometimes a certain song just sticks into your head and no matter what you do, it seems to be the default song that you can think of? It's even worse than LSS because even if you've gotten the chance to like another song, when there is nothing else that you could think of, it's the song that you would hum to, even absentmindedly...

this is what i am exactly experiencing for Let's Stay Together by Al Green. I first heard the song in lance bass's movie on the line, and since then it's always playing in my head. I watched Kyla & jay-R's concert last Saturday and i was silently wishing that they sing it. But even though they didn't it was still at the back of mind. That was why when I went to UPLB I was thinking of this song. The funny thing is, I passed by this ballet school and they were playing this song at 8am =)

so for those who doesn't know how it goes, here's the lyrics enjoy...

Let's Stay Together
Al Green

I, I'm so in love with you,
whatever you want to do,
is alright with me,
'cause you make me feel
so brand-new,
I want to spend my life with you,
they say it seems, baby,
since we've been together,
loving you forever,
is what I need.
Let me be the one you come runnin' to,
I'll never be untrue,
Ooo baby,
Let's... Let's stay together,
loving you whether, whether,
times are good or bad,
happy or sad,

Whether times are good or bad,
happy or sad.

Why, somebody?,
Why do people who break up,
oh, turn around and make up?
I just can't see.
You'd never do that to me
(would you baby)?
Being around you,
is all I see.
Here's what I want us to do:
Let's... we oughta stay together,
loving you whether, whether,
times are good or bad,
happy or sad.
(come on)
Let's... Let's stay together,
loving you whether, whether,
times are good or bad,
happy or sad.
If you never need me you can set me free woman

Let's...Let's stay together,
loving you whether, whether,
times are good or bad,
happy or sad.
If you ayyyeee with me you can set me free woman

Let's...Let's stay together,
loving you whether, whether,
times are good or bad,
happy or sad.

Tuesday, January 31, 2006

on realizing what makes you happy

it's really amazing how one can realize that the best things in life are truly for free. today i made that realization once more after bringing kyle to school. i met my aunt in csi (christian school international is a private school inside the uplb campus) for some errands and on my way back to the icafe that i always go to, i decided to walk instead of riding the jeep. but instead of using the main road, i used the raymundo gate route. it's really nice to pass thru the very road that i frequented whenever i was hanging out with friends back in college. <--- ebek, i know that you're reading my blog, so i just want to let you know that i passed by your old dorms, the one that you shared with bing when we were still freshmen and other one that you shared with niƱa & eli near mt. data. ---> even though i looked silly as i was smiling while i was walking through umali subdivision, passing by white house, joy's old apartment and the community high school, i didn't care. i wanted to smile because it was really making me happy because all the happy memories were rushing through my head like a the slideshow of dr. payawal for bio 70 =) having times like these really makes me collect my thoughts and be thankful for all the memories that i have that made me what/who i am now and for that i have no regrets. it's really funny as well how such a simple thing can make one happy. maybe im just a simple person who becomes teary eyed about touching scenes in tv shows & movies, laugh at the corniest jokes that my old uncles throw at me, and be happy & content by just knowing that i can still walk, talk and share time with my family and friends. hope my friends would continue to remind me of these things whenever i'm losing it. that way i could easily shake off the things that make my life complex & just remember the basic things that can make a person happy =)

Tuesday, January 24, 2006

Men vs Women


Men vs. Women
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Handwriting
Men: To their credit, men do not decorate their penmanship. They just chicken-scratch.
Women: Women use scented, colored stationery and they dot the "i" with circles or hearts. Women use ridiculously large loops in the "p" and "g". It is a pain to read a note from a woman. Even when she's dumping you, she will put a smiley face at the end of the note.

Groceries
Women: A woman makes a list of things she needs, then goes out to the store and buys those things.
Men: A man waits till the only items left in his fridge are half a lime and a beer. Then he goes grocery shopping. He buys everything that looks good. By the time a man reaches the checkout counter, his cart is packed tighter than the Clampett's car on Beverly Hillbillies. Of course, this will not stop him from going to the express lane.

Relationships
Women: When a relationship ends, a woman will cry and pour her heart out to her girlfriends, and she will write a poem titled "All Men Are Idiots". Then she will get on with her life.
Men: A man has a little more trouble letting go. Six months after the break-up, at 3:00 a.m. on a Saturday night, he will call and say, "I just wanted to let you know you ruined my life, and I'll never forgive you, and I hate you, and you're a total floozy. But I want you to know that there's always a chance for us." This is known as the "I Hate You / I Love You" drunken phone call, that 99% of all men have made at least once. There are community colleges that offer courses to help men get over this need.

Sex
Women: They prefer 30-40 minutes of foreplay.
Men: They prefer 30-40 seconds of foreplay. Men consider driving back to her place part of the foreplay.

Maturity
Women: They mature much faster than men. Most 17-year old females can function as adults.
Men: Most 17-year old males are still trading baseball cards and giving each other wedgies after gym class. This is why high school romances rarely work out.

Magazines
Men: Men's magazines often feature pictures of naked women. Men are turned on at the sight of a naked woman's body.
Women: Women's magazines also feature pictures of naked women. This is because the female body is a beautiful work of art, while the male body is lumpy and hairy and should not be seen by the light of day. Most naked men elicit laughter from women.

Bathrooms
Men: A man has six items in his bathroom -- a toothbrush, shaving cream, razor, a bar of Dial soap, and a towel from the Holiday Inn.
Women: The average number of items in the typical woman's bathroom is 437. A man cannot identify most of these items.

Shoes
Women: When preparing for work, a woman will put on a wool suit, then slip on Reebok sneakers. She will carry her dress shoes in a plastic bag from Saks. When a woman gets to work, she will put on her dress shoes. Five minutes later, she will kick them off because her feet are under the desk.
Men: A man will wear the same pair of shoes all day. Let's not talk about how many days he'll wear the same socks.

Cats
Women: Women love cats.
Men: Men say they love cats, but when women aren't looking, men kick cats.

Children
Women: A woman knows all about her children. She knows about dentist appointments and soccer games and romances and best friends and favorite foods and secret fears and hopes and dreams.
Men: A man is vaguely aware of some short people living in the house.

Dressing Up
Women: A woman will dress up to: go shopping, water the plants, empty the garbage, answer the phone, read a book, get the mail.
Men: A man will dress up for: weddings, funerals.

Laundry
Women: Women do laundry every couple of days.
Men: A man will wear every article of clothing he owns, including his surgical pants (the ones that were hip about eight years ago) before he will do his laundry. When he is finally out of clothes, he will wear a dirty sweatshirt inside out, rent a U-Haul and take his mountain of clothes to the Laundromat. Men always expect to meet beautiful women at the Laundromat. This is a myth perpetuated by reruns of old episodes of "Love American Style."

Eating Out
Men: When the check comes, each man will each throw in $20 bills, even though it's only for $22.50. None of them will have anything smaller, and none will actually admit they want change back.
Women: When the girls get their check, out come the pocket calculators.

Mirrors
Men: Men are vain and will check themselves out in a mirror.
Women: They are ridiculous; they will check out their reflections in any shiny surface: mirrors, spoons, store windows, bald guys' heads.

Menopause
Women: When a woman reaches menopause, she goes through a variety of complicated emotional, psychological, and biological changes. The nature and degree of these changes varies with the individual.
Men: Menopause in a man provokes a uniform reaction - he buys aviator glasses, a snazzy French cap and leather driving gloves, and goes shopping for a Porsche.

The Phone
Men: Men see the telephone as a communication tool. They use the telephone to send short messages to other people.
Women: A woman can visit her girlfriend for two weeks, and upon returning home, she will call the same friend and they will talk for three hours.

Richard Gere
Women: Women like Richard Gere because he is sexy in a dangerous way.
Men: Men hate Richard Gere because he reminds them of that slick guy who works at the health club and dates only married women.

Madonna
Same as above, but reversed. Same reason.

Toys
Women: Little girls love to play with toys. Then when they reach the age of 11 or 12, they lose interest.
Men: Men never grow out of their toy obsession. As they get older, their toys simply become more expensive, silly and impractical. Examples of men's toys: little miniature TVs. Car phones. Complicated juicers and blenders. Graphic equalizers. Small robots that serve cocktails on command. Video games. Anything that blinks, beeps, and requires at least 6 "D" batteries to operate.

Cameras
Men: Men take photography very seriously. They'll shell out $4000 for state of the art equipment, and build dark rooms and take photography classes.
Women: Women purchase Kodak Instamatics. Of course, women always end up taking better pictures.

Locker Rooms
Men: In the locker room men talk about three things: money, football, and women. They exaggerate about money, they don't know football nearly as well as they think they do, and they fabricate stories about women.
Women: They talk about one thing in the locker room - sex. And not in abstract terms, either. They are extremely graphic and technical, and they never lie.

Movies
Women: Every actress in the history of movies has had to do a nude scene. This is because every movie in the history of movies has been produced by a man.
Men: The only actor who has ever appeared nude in the movies is Richard Gere. This is another reason why men hate him.

Jewelry
Women: Women look nice when they wear jewelry.
Men: A man can get away with wearing one ring and that's it. Any more than that and he will look like a lounge singer named Vic.

Conversation
Men: Men need a good disagreement to get talking. For instance, "Wow, great movie." or "What are you, nuts? No REAL cop would have an Uzi that size."
Women: Women, not having this problem, try to initiate conversations with men by saying something agreeable: "That garden by the roadside looks lovely." "Mm hmm." Pause. "That was a good restaurant last night, wasn't it?" "Yeah." Pause. And so on.

Leg Warmers
Women: Leg warmers are sexy. A woman, even if she's walking the dog or doing the dishes, is allowed to wear leg warmers. She can wear them any time she wants.
Men: A man can only wear leg warmers if he is auditioning for the "Gimme the Ball" number in "A Chorus Line."

Friends
Women: Women on a girls' night out talk the whole time.
Men: Men on a boy's night out say about twenty words all night, most of which are "Pass the Doritos" or "got any more beer?"

Restrooms
Women: Women use restrooms as social lounges. Women who've never met will leave a restroom giggling together like old friends. Women also go to the restroom in packs, at least two women at a time excuse themselves to use the restroom.
Men: Men use restrooms for purely biological reasons. Men in a restrooms will never speak a word to each other. And never in the history of the world has a man excused himself from a restaurant table by saying, "Hey, Tom, I was just about to take a leak. Do you want to join me?"

on names, zodiacs & generalizations

i am posting another one of those forwarded messages that we often get at the start of the year. so if you're interested read on... and if your going to make comments, might as well post your reactions or justification for your own signs as well =)

now here's my take on the generalizations about my zodiac & me...

CAPRICORN
Turn ons: Capricorn are strong and dependable hence if you want to put your money on anyone it is of course this zodiac sign no matter how many difficulties (that incidentally are many) The goat has to undertake to achieve the goals. They are practical and conservative in their outlook and they expect you to blend in their color. They set certain standards for themselves in their life and they will always try to maintain those standards. For them social status and image is very important in life.
very true for me, it may not be as high as most of the people would set for themselves, but whenever i set a goal for myself, i try all my best to do it. even if it's as simple as no ACW forever or buy a new pair of pants for myself hehehehe

Turn offs: Do not expect a Capricorn mate to open their heart and pour everything to you. They are very secretive and reserved people. They are very thorough in all their affairs and hate any kind of sloppiness. again, very true for me, a close friend of mine calls me frigid because of this ;-) i'm an amiable person & i like being around people, but i choose my friends well, especially those whom i would be sharing my life with. at the moment, apart from my family i can only name 3 people who really know me well. but i will not post their names so as not to offend the others, but you know who you are.

Capricorn is very tightfisted and economical. Do not expect lavish gifts from them and if they do give you any gift (that is very rare) it will have some practical use (no romance please) but that does not mean you will be deprived of anything on the contrary you will be well provided. this is true for me as well, during christmas when we have a long list of presents to buy, you may expect a generic gift from me. but wait for your birthday & i will buy you something that you really need or want. if it's not, then perhaps i don't know you that well yet, so just tell me what you want a couple days before so that i would know what to give you ;-)

Does your name begin with: P
You are very conscious of social proprieties. You wouldn't think of doing anything that might harm your image or reputation.
oyah! that's why i don't login before all my tools are set up, i take my breaks on time,and inform people beforehand if i can't make it on time. i don't like to be reprimanded for doing the things that you already know should not be done and act as if you were sorry for forgetting, when in fact you intended to do it. i want people to know that when i say that i'm sorry & i did not intend to do it, i am telling the truth, because otherwise, i won't apologize.

Appearances count. Therefore, you require a good-looking partner. not proven this to be true so far.... hehehehe. previous partners were not all that, but all my crushes were the best!

You also require an intelligent partner. definitely! but it's negotiable, again previous partners were not!

Oddly enough, you may view your partner as your enemy...a good fight stimulates those vibes. oyah! i have yet to find the man who could tame this ego of mine hahaha

You are relatively free of hang- ups. not true! i have hang-ups but i don't let them affect the people around me, i often keep them to myself.

You are willing to experiment and try new ways of doing things. it depends on the situation and it often takes me time to decide whether i would do it or not.

You are very social and sensual; you enjoy flirting and need a good deal of physical gratification. sociable, yes! sensual...what can you say ruby??? ... enjoy flirting...very juvinile, id rather have an interesting conversation...need a good deal of physical gratification, not! i want someone who can meet my points of view head on even if we will not agree, because physical sensation fades with time...but a good memory of one's wisdom could last a lifetime.

JANUARY
Ambitious and serious
not! all i want is a simple life wherein i can provide the best things for my family & myself.

Loves to teach and be taught oyah!

Always looking at people's flaws and weaknesses in short pintasera? oyah that me!
Likes to criticize oyah! again pintasera...
Hardworking and productive try to be...
Smart, neat and organised OC would be more appropriate, but only for certain things.
Sensitive and has deep thoughts depends on the person that i am sharing my thoughts with, can't share depth with a bimbo, right?
Knows how to make others happy hope i do...
Quiet unless excited or tensed it's the otherway around, i am oftentimes chatty, unless i am extremely upset. you'll know that i'm angry or in deep trouble when i am distant & quiet. because i like to sort out my pain, problems & anger by myself.
Rather reserved depends on what aspect...
Highly attentive bibong bata, only when im interested...
Resistant to illnesses but prone to colds oyah! very prone. i'm suffering from it right now .... but recently my asthma attacks are getting worse...
Romantic but has difficulties expressing love i have yet to gauge how romantic i can be with the right person.
Loves children i to be with them because they make me feel young &amp;amp;amp;amp;amp; they really know how to make you feel important & loves. once a child hugs & kisses you, you that it was given with all sincerity.
Loyal definitely! i'll defend a friend from start to finish, no matter where it takes us
Needs to improve social abilities id rather have a small circle friends that i can trust, tham have a lot of half-baked cookies ;-)
Easily jealous
not! id easily let another person go whenever/wherever he/she wants. just do whatever they want, because i don't like to be restricted as well. if i love you, i'll trust you. just don't break it because it's really hard to gain it back.


Does your name begin with: A
U are not particularly romantic, but you are interested in action.You mean business. With you, what you see is what you get.You have no patience for flirting and can't be bothered with someone who is trying to be coy, cute, demure, and subtly enticing. You are an up-front person. You ofte n don't get hints & you ever pass any. Brains turn you on. You must feel that your partner is! intellectually stimulating, otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship. You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated. Your mate's physical attractiveness is important for you. You tend to be very Practical, & not very emotional Your choices are very good & can only lead to trouble. You are very self satisfied & egoistic.
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Does your name begin with: B
You give off vibes of lazy sensuality. You enjoy being romanced, wined, and dined. You are very happy to receive gifts as an expression of the affection of your lover. You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate. You are private in your expression of endearments, and particular when it comes to love. You will hold off until everything meets with your approval. You can control your appetite & feelings. You require new sensations and experiences. You are willing to experiment.
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Does your name begin with: C
You are a very social individual, and it is important to you to have a relationship. You require closeness and togetherness. You want the object of your affection to be socially acceptable and good-looking. You see your lover as a friend and companion. You are very sensual, Needing someone to appreciate and almost worship you. When this cannot be achieved, you have the ability to hold out on affection until you receive this. You are an expert at controlling your desires and doing without.
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Does your name begin with: D
Once you get it into your head that you want someone, you move full Steam ahead in your suit. You do not give up your quest easily. You are nurturing and caring. If someone has a problem, this turns you on. You are highly passionate, loyal, and intense in your involvement's, sometimes possessive and jealous. You are very sharp & talented often with sense of humour. When people bother to look deep inside they cannot resist what they see. You are stimulated by the eccentric and unusual, having a free and open attitude. You get jealous of other people and lose your temper .
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Does your name begin with: E
Your greatest need is to talk. If your date is not a good listener, you have trouble relating. A person must be intellectually stimulating or you are not interested sexually. You need a friend for a lover and a companion You hate disharmony and disruption, but you do enjoy a good argument once in a while-it seems to stir things up. You flirt a lot, for the challenge is more important. But once you give your heart away, you are uncompromisingly loyal. You will fall asleep with a good book. sometimes, in fact, you prefer a good book to a lover)
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Does your name begin with: F
You are idealistic and romantic, putting your lover on a pedestal. You look for the very best mate yo u can find. You are a flirt, yet once committed, you are very loyal. You are sensuous and privately passionate. Publicly, you can be showy, extravagant, and gallant. You are a born romantic. Dramatic love scenes are a favourite fantasy past time. You can be a very generous lover.
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Does your name begin with: G
You are fastidious, seeking perfection within yourself and your lover. You respond to a lover who is yourintellectual equal or superior, and one who can enhance your status. You are sensuous and know how to reach the peak of stimulation, because you work at it meticulously. You can be extremely active-never tiring out. Your duties and responsibilities take precedence over everything else. You may have difficulty getting emotionally close to peop le. ___________________________________________________________
Does your name begin with: H
You seek a mate who can enhance your zest for life ,fun & everything You seek for. You will be very generous to your lover once you have Attained a commitment. You are very affectionate & very strong. Your gifts are actually an investment in your partner. Before the commitment, though, you tend to be very careful with your every move and equally cautious in your involvement's often as you believe that you have to look out for yourself. You are a sensual and patient lover. You will hold off till everything meets your full approval. You are a perfectionist, hard to satisfy and strong in your beliefs. Not influential, you always stand your ground. People can always count on you to stand by them in a crisis. You are a dreamer with/ a passion for life.
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Does your name begin with: I
You have a great need to be loved, appreciated... even worshiped. You enjoy luxury, sensuality, and pleasures of the flesh. You like necking spend hours just touching feeling & exploring. You look for lovers who know what they are doing. You are not interested in an amateur, unless that amateur wants a tutor. You are fussy and exacting about having your desires satisfied. You are willing to experiment and try new modes of expression. You bore easily and thus require adventure and change. Your commitments don't last very long & you often tend to stray. Loyalty is not one of your strong points. You are more sensual than sexual, but you are sometimes downright lustful.
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Does your name begin with: J
You are blessed with a great deal of physical energy. When used for a good cause there is nothing to stop you, except maybe that they aren't always used for the good. (you could dance all night.) You respond to the thrill of the chase and the challenge of the mating game.You can carry on great romances in your head. At heart you are a roamer and need to set out on your own every so often. You will carry on long- distance relationships with ease. You are idealistic and need to believe in love. You have a need to be nurtured deep within.
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Does your name begin with: K
You are secretive, self-contained, and shy. You are very sexy, sensual, and passionate, but you do not let on to this. Only in intimate privacy will this part of your nature reveal itself. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert. You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role or any game, and take your love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to wait for the right person to come along. You are very generous & giving, often selfless. You are kind-natured & sweet, which is found to be attractive by many. You are a good friend.
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Does your name begin with: L
You can be very romantic, attached to the glamour of love. Having a partner is of paramount importance to you. You are free in your expression of love and are willing to take chances, try new sexual experiences and partners, provided it's all in good taste. Brains turn you on. You must feel that your partner is intellectually stimulating, otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship. You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated. "You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated ".
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Does your name begin with: M
You may appear innocent, unassuming and shy; but we know that Appearances can lie. When it comes to sex, you are no novice but something of a skilled technician. You can easily go to extremes, thoug h, running the gamut from insatiability to boredom with the whole idea of love. You can be highly critical of you mate, seeking perfection in both of you. It is not easy to find someone who can meet your standards. You have difficulty expressing emotions and drawing close to lovers. You are often selfish, thinking you are always right no matter what. You never give in. Winning is your prime desire- at any cost. You often forget friends and family and you live for the moment.
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Does your name begin with: N
You are emotional and intense. When involved in a relationship, you Throw your entire being into it. Nothing stops you; there are no holds barred. You are all-consuming and crave someone who is equally passionate and intense. You believe in total freedom. You are willing to try anything and everything. Your supply of energy is inexhaustible. You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate. You also enjoy mothering your mate. You often have the greatest love affairs all by yourself, in your head. You are very imaginative.
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Does your name begin with: O
You are very interested in fun activities yet secretive and shy about your desires. You can re-channel much of your energy into making money and/or seeking we. You can easily have extended periods of celibacy. You are a passionate, compassionate lover, requiring the same qualities From your mate. Love is serious business; thus you demand intensity, diversity and is willing to try anything or anyone. Sometimes your passions turn to possessiveness, which must be kept in check.
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Does your name begin with: P
You are very conscious of social proprieties. You wouldn't think of Doing anything that might harm your image or Reputation. Appearances count. Therefore, you require a good-looking partner. You also require an intelligent partner. Oddly enough, you may view your partner as your enemy...a good fight stimulates those vibes. You are relatively free of hang- ups.You are willing to experiment and try new ways of doing things.You are very social and sensual; you enjoy flirting and need a good deal of physical gratification.
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Does your name begin with: Q
You require constant activity and stimulation. You have tremendous physical energy. It is not easy for a partner to keep up with you. You are an enthusiastic lover and tend to be attracted to people because of their ethnic groups. You need romance, hearts and flowers, and conversation to turn you on and keep you going.
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Does your name begin with: R
You are a no-nonsense, action-oriented individual. You need someone who can keep pace with you and who is your intellectual equal-the smarter the better. You are turned on more quickly by a great mind than by a great body. However, physical attractiveness is not very important to you. You have to be proved to be worthy for a partner. You have a need to prove yourself the best. You want feedback on your performance. You are open, stimulati ng & romantic.
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Does your name begin with: S
For you, it is pleasure before business. You can be romantically idealistic to a fault and is capable of much sensuality. But you never loose control of your emotions. Once you make the commitment you stick like glue. You could get jealous and possessive. You tend to be very selfish often regarding yourself as the only human being on the planet.. You like being the centre of attention. You are very caring sensitive, private & sometimes very passive. Turned on by soft lights, romantic thoughts. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert. You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role, or any game, and take your love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to wait for the rightperson to come along. You are very generous & giving, often selfless. You are kind nature & sweet which is found to be attractive by many. You are a good friend.
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Does your name begin with: T
You are very sensitive, private & sometimes very passive. You like someone who takes the lead. You get turned on by music, soft lights & romantic thoughts. You fantasize & tend to fall in & out of love soon. When in love you are romantic, idealistic, mushy & extremely. You enjoy having your senses & your feelings stimulated, titillated & teased. You are a great flirt. You can make your relationships fit your dreams, all in your own head. Once you put your mind to something you manage to stand by it and see your dreams thr ough. You aren't very good at expressing your feelings. You like things your own way. You do not like change, you like to hold on to things. This may not always be good because if given an opportunity things may develop into great things. You work your way to the top. Attention must be given to what others say because even though you don't want to hear it their advice may turn out to save your life. !
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Does your name begin with: U
You are enthusiastic & at your happiest when in love. When not in love you're in love with love and always looking for someone to adore. You see romance as challenge. You are a roamer & needs adventure, excitement freedom. You enjoy giving gifts & looking good. You are willing to put others feelings above yours.
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Does your name begin with: V
You are individualistic & you need freedom, space & excitement. You wait till you know someone well before committing yourself. Knowing someone means psyching her/him out. You feel a need to get into his/her head to see what makes him tick. You are attracted to eccentric types. You believe that age is no barrier. You are good at responding to danger, fear & suspense.
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Does your name begin with: W
You are very proud, determined & refuses to take no for an answer when it come to love. Your ego is at stake all the tim e. You are romantic, idealistic, often in love with love itself, not seeing your partner for who she or he really is. You feel deeply about love & tends to throw all of your self into a relationship. Nothing is too good for your lover. You like playing love games.
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Does your name begin with: X
You need constant stimulation because you get bored quickly. You can handle more than 1 relationship at a time with ease. You can't shut off your mind. You can do 2 things at once. You are very talented.
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Does your name begin with: Y
You are sensual & very independent. If you can't have it your way, you will forget the whole thing. You want to control your relationships which doesn't work out too well. You respond to physical stimulation. However if you can make money you will give up the pleasures of the flesh for the moment. You have a need to prove yourself the best. You want feedback on your performance. You are open, stimulating & romantic.
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Does your name begin with: Z
You are very romantic but show feels that to love means to suffer. You wind up serving your mate & attracting people who have unusual trouble. You see yourself as a lover's saviour.

JANUARY
Ambitious and serious
Loves to teach and be taught
Always looking at people's flaws and weaknesses
Likes to criticize
Hardworking and productive
Smart, neat and organised
Sensitive and has deep thoughts
Knows how to make others happy
Quiet unless excited or tensed
Rather reserved
Highly attentive
Resistant to illnesses but prone to colds
Romantic but has difficulties expressing love
Loves children
Loyal
Needs to improve social abilities
Easily jealous

FEBRUARY
Abstract thoughts
Loves reality and abstract
Intelligent and clever
Changing personality
Temperamental
Quiet, shy and humble
Low self esteem
Honest and loyal
Determined to reach goals
Loves freedom
Rebellious when restricted
Loves aggressiveness
Too sensitive and easily hurt
Showing anger easily
Dislike unnecessary things
Loves making friends but rarely shows it
Daring and stubborn
Ambitious
Realising dreams and hopes
Sharp
Loves entertainment and leisure
Romantic on the inside not outside
Superstitious and ludicrous
Spendthrift
Learns to show emotions

MARCH
Attractive personality
Affectionate
Shy and reserved
Secretive
Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic
Loves peace and serenity
Sensitive to others
Loves to serve others
Not easily angered
Trustworthy
Appreciative and returns kindness
Observant and assess others
Revengeful
Loves to dream and fantasize
Loves travelling
Loves attention
Hasty decisions in choosing partnersLoves home decors
Musically talented
Loves special things
Moody

APRIL
Active and dynamic
Decisive and haste but tends to regret
Attractive and affectionate to oneself
Strong mentality
Loves attention
Diplomatic
Consoling
Friendly and solves people's problems
Brave and fearless
Adventurous
Loving and caring
Suave and generous
Emotional
Revengeful
Aggressive
Hasty
Good memory
Moving
Motivate oneself and the others
Sickness usually of the head and chest
Easily get too jealous

MAY
Stubborn and hard-hearted
Strong-willed and highly motivated
Sharp thoughts
Easily angered
Attracts others and loves attention
Deep feelings
Beautiful physically and mentally
Firm standpoint
Easily influenced
Needs no motivation
Easily consoled
Systematic (left brain)
Loves to dream
Strong clairvoyance
Understanding
Sickness usually in the ear and neck
Good imagination
Good debating skills
Good physical
Weak breathing
Loves literature and the arts
Loves travelling
Dislike being at home
Restless
Not having many children
Hardworking
High spirited
Spendthrift

JUNE
Thinks far with vision
Easily influenced by kindness
Polite and soft-spoken
Having lots of ideas
Sensitive
Active mind
Hesitating
Tends to delay
Choosy and always wants the best
Temperamental
Funn y and humorous
Loves to joke
Good debating skills
Talkative
Daydreamer
Friendly
Knows how to make friends
Abiding
Able to show character
Easily hurt
Prone to getting colds
Loves to dress up
Easily bored
Fussy
Seldom show emotions
Takes time to recover when hurt
Brand conscious
Executive
Stubborn
Those who loves me are enemies
Those who hates me are friends

JULY
Difficult to fathom and to be understood
Quiet unless excited or tensed
Has
reputation
Easily consoled
Honest
Concern about people's feelings
Friendly
Approachable
Very emotional
Unpredictable and temperamental
Moody and easily hurt
Witty and sarky
Sentimental
Neither forgives nor forgets
Caring and loving
Strong sense of sympathy
Judge people through observations
Loves to be alone
Always broods about the past and the old friends
Likes to be quiet
Waits for friends
Not aggressive unless provoked
Loves to be loved
Easily hurt and takes long to recover
Overly concerned
Puts in effort in work

AUGUST
Loves to joke
Attractive
Suave and caring
Brave and fearless
Firm and has leadership qualities
Knows how to console others
Too generous and egoistic
Takes high pride of oneself
Thirsty for praises
Extraordinary spirit
Easily angered
Angry when provoked
Easily jealous
Observant
Careful and cautious
Thinks quickly
Independent thoughts
Loves to lead and to be led
Loves to dream
Talented in the arts, music and defence
Sensitive but not petty
Poor resistance against illnesses
Learns to relax
Hasty and rushy
Romantic
Loving and caring
Loves to make friends

SEPTEMBER
Suave and compromising
Careful, cautious and organised
Likes to point out people's mistakes
Likes to criticize
Quiet but able to talk well
Calm and cool
Kind and sympathetic
Concerned and detailed
Trustworthy, loyal and honest
Does work well
Sensitive
Thinking
Good memory
Clever and knowledgeable
Loves to look for information
Must control oneself when criticising
Able to motivate oneself
Understanding
Secretive
Loves sports, leisure and travelling
Hardly shows emotions
Tends to bottle up feelings
Choosy especially in relationships
Loves wide things
Systematic

OCTOBER
Loves to chat
Loves those who loves him
Loves to takes things at the centre
Attractive and suave
Inner and physical beauty
Does not lie or pretend
Sympathetic
Treats friends importantly
Always making friends
Easily hurt but recovers easily
Bad tempered
Selfish
Seldom helps unless asked
Daydreamer
Very opinionated
Does not care of what others think
Emotional
Decisive
Strong clairvoyance
Loves to travel, the arts and literature
Soft-spoken, loving and caring
Romantic
Touchy and easily jealous
Concerned
Loves outdoors
Just and fair
Spendthrift and easily influenced
Easily lose confidence

NOVEMBER
Has a lot of ideas
Difficult to fathom
Thinks forward
Unique and brilliant
Extraordinary ideas
Sharp thinking
Fine and strong clairvoyance
Can become good doctors
Careful and cautious
Dynamic in personality
Secretive
Inquisitive
Knows how to dig secrets
Always thinking
Less talkative but amiable
Brave and generous
Patient
Stubborn and hard-hearted
If there is a will, there is a way
Determined
Never give up
Hardly become angry unless provoked
Loves to be alone
Thinks differently from others
Sharp-minded
Motivates oneself
Does not appreciates praises
High-spirited
Well-built and tough
Deep love and emotions
Romantic
Uncertain in relationships
Homely
Hardworking
High abilities
Trustworthy
Honest and keeps secrets
Not able to
control emotions

Unpredictable

DECEMBER
Loyal and generous
Patriotic
Active in games and interactions
Impatient and hasty
Ambitious
Influential in organizations
Loves to socialize
Loves praises
Loves attention
Loves to be loved
Honest and trustworthy
Not pretending
Short tempered and egoistic
Takes high pride in oneself
Hates restrictions
Loves to joke
Good sense of humor
Logical


CAPRICORN
Turn ons: Capricorn are strong and dependable hence if you want to put your money on anyone it is of course this zodiac sign no matter how many difficulties (that incidentally are many) The goat has to undertake to achieve the goals. They are practical and conservative in their outlook and they expect you to blend in their color. They set certain standards for themselves in their life and they will always try to maintain those standards. Fo r them social status and image is very important in life.
Turn offs: Do not expect a Capricorn mate to open their heart and pour everything to you. They are very secretive and reserved people. They are very thorough in all their affairs and hate any kind of sloppiness. Capricorn is very tightfisted and economical. Do not expect lavish gifts from them and if they do give you any gift (that is very rare) it will have some practical use (no romance please) but tha t does not mean you will be deprived of anything on the contrary you will be well provided.


AQUARIUS
Turn ons: Aquarius are friendly and fascinating people. They have in-depth knowledge about various subjects and you can converse with them for hours without getting bored. They are capable of giving a lot of love that can be amazing. They have very broad outlook about life and you can relax in their presence. They will always welcome your ideas and actions about humanitarian causes. To keep an Aquarians lover interested you must possess tha t mysterious and intriguing quality. Once hooked they will always be very faithful to you.
Turn offs: Do not expect or plan a normal, simple and predictable life with an Aquarius partner. Aquarius people are totally unpredictable. They can go to any direction without giving any advance notice. They are basically very restless and get very easily bored. Though they are very friendly but do not expect them to reveal their inner most feeli ngs to you (they will never). They can be very detached and impersonal that you may find very strange. Do not be surprised by this unpredictable quality that may crop up often

PISCES
Turn ons: Pisces are very sensitive and charming people. If you are looking for someone who is understanding and can understand your feelings then you have met the right person. You should appreciate their feelings too and in the time when you need them they will help you. Pisces have keenly developed sixth sense and have great intuitive powers. Their hunches may usually be on the mark. But they can exhaust their physical and mental energies. They are born dreamers and you can build palaces with your dream lover (only in real life it may become a little difficult preposition).
Turn offs: Pisces are dreamers and you should not expect them to have worldly ambitions. They are not materialistic in nature. It is not that they like living below the poverty line but they have no earnest desire to accumulate wealth. They are very sensitive and you have to be always careful about their feelings. The fishes are capable of drowning you in their tears (even men born under this sign). Pisces people are very intuitive but do not depend on them to make decision on important matters.

ARIES
Turn ons : Aries are naturally active and vibrant people and they have affinity for such people too . You will have to increase your pace to be in step with them. Remember they leave tortoises and snails way behind without even glancing at them once. They like and appreciate frank and straightforward persons. With them you can be your true self that is no pretenses (but don`t try your luck being over frank-they are volatile). If you are in love with Ram then you have to show your enthusiasm in all there activities (you can always yawn later!).
Turn offs : Do not tell an Aries that s/he may be wrong lest you may stir a storm in a teacup. But instead do what you feel is right and of course do not take the credit for the work done well. Aries people are very faithful and passionate lovers. Do not give air to the smoldering fire within them by making them jealous. No flirtations or fooling around with others in their presence unless of course you wish to write your death wish (y ou will be granted!).

TAURUS
Turn ons: Stability and dependability characterize Taurus. They like people who can blend and grow with them. If you have a Taurus partner you should appreciate all things bright and beautiful. They have an inherent artistic sense and are fond of color and music. Judge the life with them from purely materialistic point of view. Enjoy everything luxurious that money can provide. Enjoy good food (better if you can cook to please them) and good drinks with them.
Turn offs: Taurus is very slow to anger (in fact you may spend the whole life with them and still no spark) but you should not push your luck too much. Being unreasonable or aggressive with them may get you into trouble. Do not press him into a corner and if you do be prepared for a violent rage. Taurus is capable of violent outbursts though this is on very rare occasions. If you have a roving eye forget it because Taurus have can take the cake when it comes to being possessive. They can be suffocating when being possessive about you.

GEMINI
Turn ons: Gemini is a highly intellectual and versatile person. If you have a Gemini partner you have to match your wits with his wits to keep the zing in the relation. They want to be mentally stimulated so you have to be good in conversing. Your sense of humor will get you a permanent residence place in the heart of a Gemini. Be more communicative with them and if you are good in this then you will never know how hours pass by with you holding each other`s hand.
Turn offs:
Gemini`s like to do many things at the same time so if unfortunately you are the types who is looking for stability you may get disappointed. Do not hold back a Gemini or you may lose him, as they are restless and need change in life constantly. You should try to adopt yourself with the ever-changing Gemini. Orthodox or conservative old fashion ideas are no-no in their dictionary. Change with the ever-changing Gemini and do not flow against the current.

CANCER
Turn ons: Try to adapt yourself with the chan ging moods of the Cancer. At one moment they may be laughing and enjoying and in another moment they may cry or sulk. You may have to adjust with the moody and sensitive Cancer. They are like the tides in the ocean always fluctuating. Cancer people love food so if you know how to cook and can be poetic and romantic (added Bonus) then you know the way to their heart.
Turn offs: Cancerians are very sensitive people and can get easily hurt. So do not play with t heir emotions and sentiments. They are like tides that can take you with it. They form emotional bonds with even inanimate things too so do not ask them to discard old caps or souvenirs these things hold special meaning to them. You have to realize that the crabs have soft heart and are vulnerable. Do not contradict their tested line of thought and action it would only lead to confusion.

LEO
Turn ons: If you have Leo partner respect him and his majestic manners. Accept the advice of Leo, the lion, as he is the king of the jungle. It is the sign of a showman so if your partner does everything in grand style enjoy it. Do lavish Leo`s frequently with compliments and see them purr like a cat. They fall easily for flattery and want to be center of attraction of all eyes (sometimes they can be quiet theatrical too).
Turn offs: Never ever hurt the ego of a Leo. Pride, ego and vanity are some of the bags all Leo`s always carry with them. Do not touch these bags. An authoritative Leo is even more difficult to handle in such circumstances. Leo is a sunny sign so they do not like people who are gloomy or depressed. Even if you are crying at heart keep a sunny smile on your lips and then let lion take the charge and remove all worries from your life.

VIRGO
Turn ons: Virgo`s are very methodical and have great sense of duty but are blind to their own faults so if you have a Virgo partner emphasize more on their qualities (as it is they are not going to accept). Take keen interest in what they are doing and you will realize that they will go out of their way to help you. Do rely and appreciate their mental powers than physical powers. They can turn even an unsuccessful venture into a success.
Turn offs: Do not push a Virgo into limelight or on the center stage unless of course they do so on there own. They are shy and reserved by nature and do not like to be cynosure of all eyes. Virgo`s have a secrets that virtuous as they are would not like to come out in open so even if you have the key to their secret skeleton closet hide it do not admit even that you know anything about it. Virgo, the virgins, does not want to tarnish their public image.

LIBRA
Turn ons: Libra needs peace and harmony in all their relationship so help them maintain that. Venus the ruling planet gives them beauty and they have weakness for people who can compliment them about their beauty (you will not have to make an effort to do that anyway). You can help Libra seek union and partnership in life. If you have Libra partner you can be sure to share beautiful and pleasurable moments together.
Turn offs: Libra is kind and gentle soul but very argumentative. Hence do not start an argument or discussion unless of course you are free and do not know how to pass your time. They hate to lose and most probably in between of discussion they may change their side too (remember scales can tilt) and still continue arguing from other side. Do not push your Libra partner into making decisions. They will keep weighing pros and cons and may still not be able to come to any decision. Have patience!

SCORPIO
Turn ons: Scorpio`s are full of passion and zest for life. They have tremendous drive that can involve you too. Tune in to their wavelength and you can enjoy the harmony and music in life with them. Scorpio`s are loyal and never forget a kind deed done by you. If you want to enjoy life with your Scorpio lover share their passion and intensity and you will be fascinated by how beautiful life can be with them.
Turn offs: Scorpio`s are very passionate and intense but they are also fiercely possessive and would like to possess your mind, body and soul. Do not let seeds of jealousy grow in them because then you may have to suffer agonies of jealousy and discontentment in life. Scorpio`s have explosive tempers be careful how you handle them. They never let anyone know what is going on in their mind till they strike and you may be caught unawares. Do not flirt around in the presence of your Scorpio lover.

SAGITTARIUS
Turn ons: Sagittarius is basically a happy go lucky kind. You can enjoy with their zest and enthusiasm in life. They can bubble with excitement that can be tangible at times. And if you share same interests and hobbies then life can be great fun together. They are frank and straightforward so if you want some truthful opinion about anything or anyone goes to them. Be optimistic as they are and view life as glass half full.
Turn offs: Sagittarius is fiercely independent and cannot tolerate restriction hence do not try to hold them back in life. Let them enjoy their freedom because if you hold any special place in their heart they will al ways come back for you. Do not feel irritated by the exaggeration in their speech. They may go on and on talking about certain things that may not even interest you but it is their way of trying to communicate with you. They are basically frank and outspoken (to the point of being rude) so do not feel offended by their talks.